Most litigants in Family Disputes, suffer from Arjun Vishad Yog - they avoid taking first legal steps
And then suffer protracted litigations.
In Husband wife disputes, after disputes arises, for first few months, husband and wife become separate and then suffer from dilemma, who should take first legal steps.... This is like Arjun Vishad Yoga - described in chapter 2 of GITA.
They hope that some miracle will happen, some wisdom will prevail.
Nothing actually happens. The relatives only worsen the situation.
Then wife, files first legal action. Then for husband side, things start going from bad to worse.
Here, as soon as the dispute arises, a wise decision should be taken. Preventive legal steps should be taken.
What preventive steps can be taken depends on facts of each case. For example, husband can file suit for restitution of conjugal rights or for judicial separation or for some other declaration. For this your lawyer can examine situation and can give you advice.
Waiting for bad things to happen is certainly a bad move.
Law, Luck and Judges help those litigants who are vigilantes about their rights.
Haresh Raichura
29/6/13
