If the answer is yes, then you are far from self confidence and inner peace.
Everyday, you may be looking at 10 persons to seek approval of your actions. 5 of them may smile and approve your action. Other 5 can frown and can show a cold shoulder to you.
Your state of happiness can keep fluctuating whole day.
If you have such a need, then first admit that you have such a need. Then your mind can guide you further.
Haresh Raichura
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